Monday, September 29, 2008

My Week from 22/09 to 29/09


Well there has not been much taking place this weekend, i spent the weekend at my place so i do not have any pictures about what took place this weekend. On the work front, i have sharpened my presennation and hopefully when Oslo scout groups invite me i will have interesting things to share with them about myself, my country and my YMCA. I started brainstorming for the christmas campaign with Solveig and alot of interesting ideas came through, i am really excited about this campaign and hope we will be able to raise enough funds for the internal and extelnal structure of the school being built in Sudan. I will also start working on the english side of our webpage so i am looking forward to starting with that.


On friday i went to one og my collegues home for dinner, it was really great and we played the game Jenga (or fallling tower) after the food. My shaky hands were very exposed during this game and everyone had fun laughing at me about that. I also went out fot coffee with one of my collegues on Sunday, to very great place not too far from the office. I am really loving these coffee places i have been going to, and if anyone has any further suggestions about great Sunday chill session coffee places please let me know. I like places that serve good coffee, but over and above that a place with great enviroment is the best. I was again caught offguard by the Norwegian weather on Sunday, i was uspposed to also go to the statue park with my collegue but after a few minutes at the bus stop i realised that i was not at al dressed for this outing. I could feel the wind going through my small cotton jacket and it was not a nice feeling so after coffee i decided to head home instead.
I am looking forward to this weekend, because i will be going to a leadership training camp at a place close to Sanderford, i hear there is a sea close to the place, not that i am thinking of swimming in it, i just believe there is a karma that comes with just looking and listening to the ocean. I have just uploaded a few pictures from South Africa that were taken by my boyfriend before i left for Norway, and a picture of my family from left: My mom, me, my sister, my brother and my boyfriend.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

My weekend at Utsikten



My Weekend at Utsikten

I took a 7 hour bus ride to a place called Utsikten where i had a great weekend , i was on a leadership training seminar with Solveig. I must admit i had alot of fun, and i meet some wonderful people during this weekend. I also had my very first official scout camp fire, and was entertained by diffirent individuals with the vast talents. I still laugh when i think of one of the perfomances that were done around the campfire namely the lady imitating the man fishing, it was hilarious.I also assisted in making my first meal over the fire and it was divine, thanks to all the guys that were in my group for your assistance. I dont think it would have been right for an African to be present at such a gathering and not teach or spread the African spirit to others, so i found myself teaching people Shosholoza and akekho ofana noJesu. I must say Solveig was great help because she knew both the songs so i did not have to expose my weakness in singing. The wheather was stunning outside and i found myself just standing around in front of the sun and appreciating nature, and the beauty it carries.



The people i meet in Utsikten, which are from the region of Haugaland were the greatest people ever. I even recieved a gift from them, which were wollen wrist warmers. I did my HIV/AIDS presenation and recieved some great feedback from the participants who attended which made me very pleased because i was so nervous about doing that presenation. I wish i could list everyone by their names and thank them for their great hosipitality and openess to letting someone they did not know end up feeling like part of the team.





I got to learn a very fun card game called president with the help of some participants and enjoyed myself till midnight with them. I am really loving nature these days, i went to see a fontain around this place which is listed to be one of the most beautiful sites in Norway and indeed i was blown away. I have to say Norwegians are really in to chocolate, or should i say the ones i have come across so far and i am so scared of chocolate because i just think fat, but i have developed a massive sweet tooth and i am enjoying the Norwegian chocolate. So please send any Norwegian chocolate suggestions you might have and where i can find that specific chocolate. I hope everyone who was also at this weekend enjoyed themselves as much as i did, and it would be interesting for me to hear what their take was on the weekend. If they also have any comments ect.

Scouts: ''Always prepared''- this is the mentality i am going to take with me back to South Africa and is the mentality that keeps me going while i am here in Norway.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

INTRODUCTION TO BLOG


Hi all, my name is Neliswa but eveyone here in Norway calls me Nelly, I am a 22 year old girl from South Africa in a sunny city called Durban. I am an exchange programme participant and will be spending the next 9 months here in Norway. I will share my experinces with you through this blog and all the challenges and accomplishments i came across and ask for your advise. I am very excited about getting to know people here in Norway, and learning more about the scouts of Norway. I will update my blog weekly so everyone can watch this space for new news ect.

I f you want to learn more about me you can look in my profile on this blog,

Monday, September 15, 2008

My first week in the Scout office.



15/09/2008

Just came out of a quite weekend which i really think i needed because just being in a new place really does exhast you up as a person. I went up to mountains from the 08 September to the 10 September which proved to rather interesting. We stayed in a pretty upmarket cabin that had all the neccessaties one would need. This means that i still have not slept in a tent, not that i am looking forward to that. I just think i will freeze to death because Norway is starting to get really cold now its scary. I also went mountain climbing for the first time which was really an experience. I felt so good when i got to the top of the of the mountain, because i felt like i had accomplished something that words cannot explain.

It was really cold at the top of the mountain and could not even keep my eyes opened. My body was warm though from all the clothing i was wearing, which were all borrowed from different individuals from my office. I also got a crash course on clothing that can keep you warm, ''Wool is Gold''. I need to wear woll underneath my clothing and then i can layer that with a fleece or any other clothing but i have to wear a wind proof jacket at the end. I also need to wear wollen gloves, beanie (hat) and scarf if possible. With this advise i will never go wrong i hope. Please can everyone feel free to give me any clothing advise because i really need that.

I have been working on the re-marketing of the HIV/AIDS awareness badge and this has become very close to my heart. I will be going to Haugaland krets this weekend and i am really looking forward to that as i will get to meet other people that make up the scouts. I will also be doing a presentation on the HIV/AIDS Badge with some of the participants.

Thursday, September 11, 2008

First Month in Norway


Report Back- 1st Month as a GoCy Intern

My first month as a GoCy intern has been challenging both physically, mentally and emotionally. I have had days where I did not want get up in the morning because I felt like my body was too tired and I have had days where I just want to get up and sing ‘Oh what a beautiful morning’. The GoCy preparatory course has proved to be very successful and a good way to prepare GoCy interns before they go to their respective host countries, and as I landed in Oslo and was told I would be spending a week at the country side called Aarholt-Tunet in Stokke Norway doing the first part of my orientation I was both excited and a bit nervous. I firstly thought about the fact that I have never camped before in my life and what a city girl I have become but I also thought about how beautiful nature can be, and what better way to learn than in an environment that inspires you to learn and opens up your mind to the beauty of nature.


The first week proved to a very interesting week, we all had a schedule that had to be followed, we had activities and programs till 22:30pm and the Norwegian sun was still up till 23:00pm. It was also the time when we meet all the different GoCy interns from all around the world and the buzz and excitement was very much in the air and it was obvious that we were all excited and eager to know about each other and our countries and so forth. We were introduced to a program called the buddies system; this is where a previous GoCy intern is assigned as your buddy. The buddy system was well thought of because what you would find is that your respective buddy had either been in the country that you were going to or they had been to your country so they had the full view of the two different sides. My assigned buddy is Ida Marie; she was a GoCy last year and was in South Africa.



We watched a still picture movie called Baraka, this was great introduction as it was a movie that portrayed all the different countries the producer of the movie has been to all these different countries and showed the underlining struggles or threats that the respective country had but also linking those threats to the overall effect to the bigger picture. It proved to be a very mixed emotions filled movie that had different meaning to different individuals.


We moved on to Global thinking and worked on an interesting theory called Guns, Germs an Steel which answered the question of why some countries are rich and others are poor in a very geographical way. We moved to Intercultural understanding which I found to be very interesting, we were again given exercises that showed us what is good intercultural understanding and the disadvantages of bad pre-judgement.


This day was a more personal way of thinking through role plays, and exercises like who am I, what are my preferences ect. This in a way showed you what your qualities are, what are your strengths and weaknesses ect. At the end of this week, we had an evaluation about what we thought we had learned, what we think should stay in the course and any suggestions we might have to add to the course ect.





Week two was Global week, we had just started to feel comfortable with one another when we were joined by another group of young people. During global week our main concern was the campaign themed ‘Give a little wave’. The experience of doing a campaign was very exhilarating, I found myself getting every excited and telling people around me about my experience in marketing and talked about previous campaigns I had worked on. The people in Norway are very reserved and unlike South Africans getting attention from them proved to be a challenge but with the way we had infused all our different cultures and background to create one thing was enough to make some of them stand and look with curiosity. We called ourselves the warriors of freedom and had a different dances and actions that we did to get attention while others handed out pamphlets and other information. It proved to be every interesting and I was involved with the activities group and found myself doing human pyramids that I had only 2 hours to learn how to do, very interesting. The campaign was successful and after the evaluation we discussed the kind of feelings we had during that week. We were very stressed so there was a lot of shouting and arguing and we all had our own idea of what was right but with a bit of guidance we all did a fantastic job.



The third week was the GoCy interns only again and I got to meet Solveigh as she took us through what advocacy is, and how one can reach their audience. She also spoke about different work shopping techniques that involved getting your group of participants involved. She spoke about presentation skills that I found to be very interesting as this is one of the skills I want to sharpen and learn more on. We had a scouts fire one night during the week and had activities around the scout fire, this proved to be very helpful as I will be part of the Scouts for the next 8 months.


The last week was with FK I felt that there was a bit of repetition of what we had already done in the previous 3 weeks, but you know what they say practise makes perfect. We also moved location during this week, which was great because I was really starting to not feel any inspiration within the environment, and were at a point where I just wanted to get out of the camp. We stayed at Sanner hotel, and learned more about FK and what they rules and regulations are towards FK participants and what their objectives are through these exchange programs.

This first month has been full of personal challenges and culture shock at how different individuals can be but it also opened me up to cultural diversity and how one can adapt to different cultures through being aware of the cultures around them. I feel like I am prepared for anything in Norway for the next 8 months and I have a positive attitude mixed with an open mindness and most of all respect for other people and their culture. I am a GoCy intern and now I can see why I am here and when I go back home I will have millions of stories to share and loads of new information, experience and knowledge that I want to share with people from my country and my YMCA. I am happy to be here and I know my stay will be beneficial personally and most of all to people around me.